You guys, JBlog® has a new female blogger! She’s funny, smart and a dating veteran. Meet Kelly:

Kelly Stryker has done it all on the dating scene in NYC. She’s done open, closed, dependent, independent, comfortable, uncomfortable, functional, non-functional, love-hate, and just hate. She’s been taken to Michelin-star dinners, cockroach diners, exclusive East Village speak-easys, bro-filled Solo® cup pre-games, high-floor balconied condos, and even a grad school dorm room. She’s been courted by lawyers, doctors, bankers, and probably your ex-boyfriend.

As a three-year veteran of JDate, Stryker is all too familiar with the “dos” and “don’ts” of online dating—so for Moses’ sake, take it from her experience so it doesn’t become yours.